Personality Disorder Treatment in Spain: One-to-One Rehab with Therapy & Support
Oasis Premium Recovery is a calm residence in Southern Spain where adults receive private, one-to-one treatment for personality disorder traits and diagnoses. We support people who identify with EUPD/BPD features, avoidant or obsessive–compulsive personality patterns, dependent and narcissistic traits, and mixed presentations. Work is paced, discreet, and senior-led. There are no compulsory groups unless you request them.
Who This Helps
Adults seeking privacy, continuity, and precise pacing. It suits clients who find groups overwhelming or unhelpful, who need private meals for anxiety or eating work, and who want consistent contact with senior clinicians. We welcome people with a formal diagnosis and those who recognise patterns without a label.
Understanding Personality Traits And Diagnoses
We work with patterns, not labels. A diagnosis such as EUPD/BPD, OCPD, or avoidant personality disorder describes clusters of traits that formed for good reasons. They often protected you in earlier contexts but now create cost. Our job is to understand what keeps the pattern going and build skills and routines that make a different pattern workable in everyday life.
Language matters. We use respectful, non-stigmatising language. When helpful, we translate medical terms into plain English and agree words that fit you.
Common Presentations We Support
- Emotionally unstable/borderline features (EUPD/BPD): intense feelings, rapid swings, fear of rejection, urges to self-harm, relationship turbulence, all-or-nothing thinking.
- Avoidant patterns: social inhibition, shame, strong fear of criticism, withdrawal that shrinks life and opportunity.
- Obsessive–compulsive personality patterns (OCPD): perfectionism, rigidity, over-control, difficulty delegating, exhaustion from rules and checking. (Distinct from OCD.)
- Dependent patterns: difficulty making decisions without reassurance, fear of being alone, staying in costly relationships.
- Narcissistic traits: oscillation between high standards and shame, sensitivity to perceived failure, relational ruptures after criticism.
- Mixed presentations: combinations with anxiety, depression, ADHD, trauma responses, dissociation, or eating disorders.
EUPD/BPD: Private One-to-One Focus
For clients seeking detailed information on borderline patterns and treatment options, see our dedicated page: EUPD/BPD Treatment in Spain. It covers stabilisation, DBT skills delivered one-to-one, attachment-aware work, crisis planning, and aftercare in depth.
Assessment And Formulation
We build a shared map so change is targeted and safe.
- History and context: origins of patterns, current stressors, attachment themes, and what has helped or harmed before.
- Function of behaviour: what the behaviour solves in the moment, what it costs later, and gentler ways to meet the same need.
- Risk and safety: self-harm thoughts, impulsivity, dissociation, and substance use are assessed calmly and without judgement.
- Capacity and pacing: sleep, nutrition, and daily load determine starting intensity. We adjust weekly.
Why One-to-One Residence For Personality Patterns
- Low stimulus reduces overwhelm so you can practise skills and exposures without audience pressure.
- Continuity with a senior-led team prevents splitting and mixed messages.
- Private meals make anxiety and eating work safer where relevant.
- Flexible pacing allows high-intensity weeks or consolidation time depending on capacity.
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Therapies We Use
All care is one-to-one. We blend structured skills work with relational depth so gains hold outside.
- DBT (Dialectical Behaviour Therapy): emotion regulation, distress tolerance, interpersonal effectiveness, and mindfulness. Diary cards, chain analysis, and between-session coaching when needed. Recommended for EUPD/BPD features.
- CBT (Cognitive Behavioural Therapy): identify rules such as perfectionism and abandonment predictions. Behavioural experiments test new ways to respond.
- ACT (Acceptance and Commitment Therapy): values clarification, defusion from harsh self-talk, and committed action in small, repeatable steps.
- IPT (Interpersonal Therapy): role disputes, role transitions, grief, and communication skills that reduce rupture and repair faster.
- Family therapy: with your consent we align support, set boundaries, and reduce accommodation without blame. See Family therapy.
- Body-based regulation: TRE, functional breathing, yoga therapy, mindfulness for baseline calm and dissociation awareness.
- Creative therapies: art therapy and dance and movement to access emotion safely.
Core Skills You Will Learn
- Emotion regulation: naming states, opposite action, self-soothing kits, and paced exposures to triggers.
- Distress tolerance: 10-minute crisis scripts, urge surfing, and short-horizon planning so you can outlast spikes.
- Interpersonal effectiveness: boundary language, validation without agreement, repair steps after rupture.
- Identity and values: building a week anchored to values rather than only to relief or approval.
- Attention and sleep: stable rhythm and device rules that protect mood and decision capacity. See Insomnia treatment.
Crisis Planning And Safety
We create a simple, written plan you can actually use.
- Early warning signs and personalised responses.
- Short lists of people to contact and how to contact them.
- Environment changes that make the safe choice the easy choice.
- Clear steps for nights, weekends, and travel when risk can rise.
Co-Occurring Conditions And Dual Diagnosis
Co-occurring symptoms are the rule, not the exception. We integrate care in one plan so progress is not pulled apart by different teams or priorities.
- Mood and anxiety: depression, anxiety, OCD.
- Attention and arousal: ADHD, trauma responses, dissociation.
- Eating and appetite: eating disorders including anorexia, bulimia, binge eating.
- Substances and compulsions: see Dual Diagnosis Treatment and Addiction Treatment including alcohol, cocaine, prescription medication, and gambling.
Programmes And Intensity
- The Foundation Retreat: assessment, stabilisation, and early wins.
- The Restorative Path: steady skill building and consolidation.
- The Regenerative Stay: complex presentations with trauma, eating, or prescription patterns.
- The Signature Experience: fully bespoke framework with extended senior time.
- The One-to-One Residence: maximum privacy and continuity.
Aftercare And Outcomes
- Lifetime Aftercare with planned reviews.
- Ongoing support for skills refreshers and accountability.
- Relapse prevention for self-harm urges, impulsive decisions, and relationship ruptures with clear scripts and check-ins.
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Start Private Treatment In Spain
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Frequently Asked Questions
Do I need a formal diagnosis before admission?
No. Many clients attend because patterns are costly even without a formal label. We assess and plan together.
Do you have a dedicated BPD page?
Yes. See EUPD/BPD treatment for an in-depth guide to private one-to-one care, DBT skills, crisis planning, and aftercare.
Can you work with EUPD/BPD features one-to-one?
Yes. DBT is delivered privately, with diary cards, chain analysis, and between-session coaching when indicated.
How long should I stay?
Length of stay depends on severity, co-occurring conditions, and goals. Many clients extend in measured steps as capacity returns.
Are there groups?
Groups are optional. All core care is one-to-one to reduce exposure and keep pacing precise.
Will you involve my family or partner?
With your consent, yes. Family sessions focus on education, boundaries, and repair. See Family therapy.