Sex & Love Addiction Recovery in Spain: Private, One-to-One Healing & Luxury Care

Oasis Premium Recovery is a private, one-to-one residential programme in Southern Spain for adults struggling with sex and love addiction, compulsive sexual behaviour, and attachment wounds. We stabilise sleep and mood, reduce secrecy and risk, and rebuild healthy intimacy and boundaries at a realistic pace. If you are comparing settings, start with Rehab Spain, understand our model in One-to-One Therapy in Spain and Why Private Therapy in Spain Works, and review scope at What We Treat and Relationship Trauma and Attachment Wounds. For landscape context, see Luxury Rehab Clinics, Rehab UK vs Spain, and Spain Treatment Centres.

Spain: Marbella · Málaga · Madrid · Barcelona

What this page covers · Signs and effects · Why one-to-one works · Assessment · Our approach · Your clinical dose · Two sample pathways · Partner and family repair · Relapse prevention and aftercare · Programmes · Admissions · FAQ

Sex and love addiction recovery: what this page covers

Compulsive sexual behaviour: persistent use of pornography, sexting, cybersex, escort seeking, or risky encounters despite harm.
Love addiction and relationship compulsivity: intense pursuit, rapid attachment, fear of abandonment, and cycles of infidelity or serial relationships.
Attachment and trauma themes: anxious or avoidant patterns, shame, secrecy, and difficulty with consent, boundaries, and authenticity. See Relationship Trauma and Attachment Wounds.
Co-occurrence: common overlap with anxiety, depression, ADHD, internet overuse, and work-related burnout.

Common signs and effects we see

Loss of control: repeated promises to stop, followed by binges and secrecy.
Sleep and energy impact: late-night sessions, disrupted mornings, reliance on caffeine or sedatives.
Mood volatility: shame, anxiety, low mood, irritability, and social withdrawal.
Relationship strain: secrecy around devices, boundary breaches, conflict, and trust rupture.
Risk patterns: unsafe encounters, privacy exposure, spending spikes, and mixing with alcohol or sedatives after binges. See Prescription Medication Misuse.

Why one-to-one care is effective

Shame and privacy concerns make group disclosure difficult. One-to-one work provides a contained space, stable attunement, and enough clinical time to change high-risk loops while protecting dignity. We combine trauma-informed psychotherapy with practical device and environment rules, then rebuild healthy intimacy at a pace that holds.

Assessment: mapping the loop

Behaviour profile: triggers, platforms, locations, time of day, spending, escalation, and binge windows.
Attachment and history: early caregiving patterns, previous trauma, abandonment themes, and relationship cycles.
Sleep and physiology: latency, night waking, morning readiness, appetite, and energy stability.
Mood and cognition: anxiety, low mood, shame scripts, perfectionism, and executive function.
Environment: device locations, privacy risks, notification load, travel patterns, and work stress.
Medical and safeguarding: sexual health screening coordination if wanted, consent and safety risks, and physician liaison where medication is involved. We do not prescribe or alter doses.

Our approach to sex and love addiction

DBT-informed skills: urge surfing, distress tolerance, emotion regulation after conflict, and interpersonal effectiveness for boundaries and consent. See DBT Therapy in Spain.
Motivational work (MET): resolve ambivalence, align values, and convert decisions into daily rules with clear consequences. See MET Therapy.
Somatic regulation: TRE, breathwork, light and movement to reduce hyperarousal and improve sleep.
Digital environment design: device zoning, app and site blocks, notification hygiene, removal of saved cards, delay rules, and curated content filters.
Attachment and intimacy work: pacing touch and closeness, boundary scripts, and values-led intimacy plans that respect consent and safety.
Partner and family support: structured disclosures at your pace, repair conversations, and simple rules for transparency if chosen.

Your weekly clinical dose

Psychotherapy: 7 to 10 hours one-to-one focused on shame repair, attachment, and impulse control.
Skills and planning: 3 to 5 hours on device rules, boundary scripts, relapse prevention, and calendar design.
Somatic regulation: 2 to 4 hours of TRE and body-based work to stabilise the system.
Integration time: protected practice, nature, and rest so change consolidates.

Two sample pathways

Compulsive pornography and sexting with sleep collapse

Week 1: circadian reset, device lockdown and zoning, DBT regulation blocks, MET values work, TRE, creation of first device and boundaries charter.
Week 2: curated feeds, delay rules, social reconnection offline, partner alignment if helpful, aftercare calendar.
Weeks 3 to 4: graded exposure to devices in high-risk windows, slip drills for travel and evenings, step down to structured follow ups.

Serial affairs and risky encounters with alcohol use

Week 1: safety plan, alcohol boundaries with physician coordination if indicated, DBT distress tolerance, TRE, first transparency and money rules if relevant.
Week 2: attachment-focused work, boundary scripts, partner repair session if consented, MET to resolve ambivalence, aftercare plan.
Weeks 3 to 4: weekend and travel protocols, graded social exposure, relapse prevention for anniversaries and triggers, step down.

Partner and family repair

With your consent, we facilitate structured disclosures, repair conversations, and practical rules for transparency. Options include limited shared visibility, timed check ins, and a simple household plan. All work respects privacy, consent, and safety for both parties.

Relapse prevention and aftercare

You leave with a device and intimacy charter, boundary scripts, a 90 day calendar for high-risk dates, and scheduled follow ups. Ongoing support includes Lifetime Aftercare, Aftercare Support, and Life Skills and Relapse Prevention. We can liaise with local therapists or physicians you choose.

Programmes

The Foundation Retreat for assessment and stabilisation.
The Restorative Path for structured daily work on boundaries and routines.
The Regenerative Stay for deeper change and complex co-occurrence.
The Signature Experience for fully bespoke, high-touch support.
Residence overview: The One-to-One Residence and daily life at Life at Oasis.

Admissions and practicalities

Confidentiality: discreet admissions and a low-exposure residence protect privacy.
Travel: straightforward routes into Málaga and nearby hubs with private ground transfer.
Medical liaison: coordination for sexual health screening if wanted, and physician input where medications or safety concerns are present. We do not prescribe or alter doses.
Safety note: if there is immediate risk of harm, contact local emergency services. We are not an emergency service.

Frequently asked questions

Is this programme suitable for adults only

Yes. We are an adult service. For clients close to 18, we can discuss suitability and alternatives.

Do I have to give up all intimacy

No. We stabilise first, then rebuild consent, boundaries, and intimacy at a pace that fits your values and safety.

Will my partner be involved

Only with your consent. We can facilitate structured disclosures and repair conversations and set clear rules for transparency if you both agree.

What about privacy with devices and records

We use a device and environment charter tailored to you. Records are secure. We share information only with your consent or where law requires.

Can you help if alcohol or sedatives are involved

Yes. A physician sets any medical plan. We do not prescribe or alter doses. We coordinate pathways and match therapeutic pace to safety.

How long should I plan for

Many clients begin with two weeks for stabilisation and extend in two to four week blocks to consolidate change.

Is group work required

No. Our model is one-to-one as standard. Optional partner or family sessions are arranged with your consent.

How to start

Send a confidential enquiry. Share a concise outline of your situation and goals.
Book a pre-admission assessment. We review history, risks, device use, relationships, and practical needs via secure video.
Receive a tailored plan. We propose programme length, focus areas, and next steps. Physician coordination if indicated.
Plan travel. We arrange your arrival and private ground transfer to the residence.
First 72 hours. Stabilise sleep, nutrition, and routine while beginning focused work.
Step down. Continue with structured aftercare and boundary practice at home.

Speak in confidence. If sex or love patterns have started taking more than they give, contact Oasis Premium Recovery for a private, one-to-one plan in Spain.

One-to-one session focused on sex and love addiction with values and boundary work
Device and intimacy charter with consent and delay rules on a desk
TRE setup for nervous system regulation after urge spikes
Calm bedroom suite supporting sleep restoration in Spain

Sex & Love Addiction Recovery in Spain – Private, One-to-One Care